‘What if…’

April 9th, 2012 by Duncan

I got to thinking how amazing it is that the company name ‘Google’ has become a verb.

Not even the mighty Apple has managed that!

I’ll ‘Google’ that when I get back to the office…

I also got to wondering how its rival company ‘Yahoo’ feel about that.

As far as I am aware no one says “I’ll Yahoo that…”

At the Yahoo HQ in Silicon Valley you’ll find posters on the walls promoting an ‘ideas factory’ where employees are encouraged to bring their best ideas forward. However, five miles down the road at Google HQ, this kind of inventive thinking is assumed. Staff are expected to spend a day a week working on their own projects. An initiative that has led to the creation of classic Google hits such as ‘Google News’ that gets over 10 million hits a month.

It seems to me that Google have innovation built into their DNA. They are good at asking the ‘what if…’ question.

What would you love to see happen in your business, your church, your future? What seemingly outrageous things do you dream about?

 

He Isn’t Here…

April 8th, 2012 by Duncan

Good Friday…

April 6th, 2012 by Duncan

Matt’s Leaving…

April 1st, 2012 by Duncan

I bet you were as shocked as me when you heard the announcement today that Matt Levett (our youth worker at the Forge) is leaving next month.

He’s become a hero to many of our young people and a friend to lots of us parents. We are really going to miss him when he goes in April.

Foolishly, I thought he’d stay forever. I always knew Matt had spoken of his interest of one day maybe lecturing at a theological college. But it all felt very sudden. I guess things change and God moves people on.

And, like me, many people have already asked why America? What’s Boston got that Debenham hasn’t? When I asked Matt that question he told me that the USA has great food, great music and at the moment – a great APR. I’ll fool him into staying when I tell him they don’t get the Liverpool games over there!

However.

Every cloud…

I bet you were also very excited at the announcement that we have already found his replacement. And I for one can’t wait for Henry Olonga to start with us as the new youth worker in June. We all knew he was a great sportsman and has an incredible singing talent…
but a youth worker? Who knew?

He wrote this in a recent email to the Elders…

I am really looking forward to getting started at the Forge. I know that Matt’s shoes are pretty big ones to step into. My first task will be to help the church connect better with the growing number of disillusioned black kids rioting, taking drugs and generally causing trouble on the streets of Debenham. Thanks for the assurance that many Forge people will be up for joining me in the task.

See you all in June!

In many ways I am not sure whether to laugh or cry – knowing that I have made all this up. (The more eagle eyed of you would have spotted the two world play clues in the first four paragraphs.)

What’s your best April fools prank story? And should Christians play April fools jokes anyway?

What I’m Learning About Twitter…

March 23rd, 2012 by Duncan

So to date I’ve tweeted over 7,000 times. What’s all that about?

Just a few years ago ‘tweeting’ was what little blue birds did in Disney films. Now its the electronic tweets of friends, news feeds and premiership footballers that have become the first thing I check in the morning (and the last thing I check at night.) My wife says I am obsessed. She may have a point.

Here’s Five things I’ve learned since those early chirps when that fail whale was a regular occurrence. (I always used to think if the whale was a sign of failure then why did he look so happy?)

1. Re-tweeting nice things people say about you is just plain big headed

You can try adding the phrase - that makes me feel sooooo special – to try and soften the blow but you still look a plank. In fact, filling up people’s timeline with endless re-tweets about anything is tantamount to digital harassment.

2. We all hate TwitLonger

If you can’t get it into 140 characters than say it differently or don’t say it at all. We don’t want another click to get those last few words of yours that never live up to expectation anyway.

3. #stopwritingsuchlonghastagsthatnobodycandecipher

You might think it a witty end to your tweet. But we just wished you had spaced the words out so we didn’t have to take 10 minutes figuring it out.

4. If you worry you tweet too much then you probably are

Just tweet the good stuff. Stop telling us about what you are having for lunch or how cute your cat looks. (Unless of course, you are eating roast swan with the Queen and your cat is nestled in the lap of Jennifer Aniston.)

5. Don’t listen to me

This is your life and these are your tweets. You can say what you like. Just mind I don’t click unfollow…

What are you learning about Twitter?

Am I Just Sweeping Leaves Into The Wind?

February 19th, 2012 by Duncan

I’m in a reflective mood…

The questions running through my mind…

Why do I do what I do at the Forge? Why do I get up in the morning and go to work? And what would success look like if I did my job really well?

Towards and answer…

I want to help create an irresistible experience on a Sunday that makes people say – ‘Wow, I really like my church.’

So much so… that they realise that they are never more than seven days away from inviting their friends to a come and check out the church they are so proud of.

And when these friends come… they experience people worshiping passionately but authentically; and a preacher who grabs their attention enough to make them want to come back. I want them to say -  ‘Wow, I really like this church.’

I want to continue making each Sunday more irresistible than the last… so that they keep coming back until they eventually say: ‘Wow, I really like my church.’

Then I want these ‘friends’ to find that they are never more than seven days away from inviting their friends to come and check out the church they are so proud of.

And the circle continues…

That’s it… That’s what I’ve given my life to do at The Forge.

Its this that drives me. Its this that keeps me awake at night.

And Its this that forces me to constantly ask the question: How am I doing? Because if I am honest (and I am not being insecure or fishing for compliments here) I sometimes feel like I am just sweeping leaves into the wind.

I sometimes wonder if this is a dream too far? I mean… is it actually possible to build a church like this in rural Suffolk?

If I am going to see this happen at the Forge week after week then one thing is for sure – I am going to have to do something very different. Because to reach these people that we are not currently reaching at the Forge, we are going to have to do something that no one else is doing…

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communication fail…

January 31st, 2012 by Duncan

Communicating isn’t just my job – its my hobby… my passion… my default setting

Its how I am wired up. I love listening to great communicators – whatever their subject. I sat in a school hall last week spell bound as a school headmaster gave the most inspiring 30 minute talk to 500 parents and students that I have ever heard. (To the sheer embarrassment of my 16 year old, I led the standing ovation at the end). I marveled at the way he built tension, created mystery, drew me in and left me with no doubt about what my next steps should be. I wanted to be sixteen again…

I trade in words so I always want to get better at communicating. I am constantly asking myself: How do I give a talk with a message that sticks and makes people want to listen again?

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No one who gets up to give a presentation says ‘my aim today is to bore the pants off my audience.’ And yet so often they do. Why? Becasue their approach doesn’t match their goal. (This happens in ‘church world’ more often that it should).

So how do we present something that is compelling, memorable and helpful enough to make people want to come back for more?

Andy Stanley is one of my favorite communicators. In his book ‘Communicating For A Change’ he says the key for speakers is to remember that ‘less is always more’.

Teach less material at greater depth. Less is more. Instead of leaving listeners with a list of five things to remember – which they won’t – plant one powerful thought

I am learning to ask myself: ‘What’s the point I am trying to make? What’s the takeaway here that I want everybody to remember?’

Stanley continues…

When I build a sermon, I clear away everything, no matter how good it is, that adds or distracts from that one point. Then I crescendo to it. Preparation isn’t about finding a way to divulge everything I know, but about asking myself, “What’s the thing, Andy? Just say the one thing, and then stop your mouth from moving.”

Here are FOUR really helpful questions he suggests any speaker should consider when preparing a talk.

1. Who is this talk really about?

Is this all about making me feel liked or is this about meeting the needs of my listeners? (If at any point you are concerned about how its going down – then its probably about you.) Many people are one bad decision away from making a disaster of their lives. You have one shot.

2. Whats the ‘one thing’ they’ve got to know? 

In other words, if you had just 30 seconds to give your talk, whats the ‘one thing’ would you say? What’s the part you can’t wait to get to? What’s the ‘One Thing? Dig until you find it… build everything around it… find a way to make it stick (a memorable statement… a visual aid)

3. Where’s the tension?

What’s the burning question this talk answers? Whats the tension it resolves? What would make the listener say ‘I am so glad I am listening to this!’

4. Do I really ‘own’ it?

Have I internalised it? If someone took my notes away could I get the main point across? Do I really need notes at all? (You can tell me how important your message is for my life but it can’t be that important if you don’t really know it and have to read it from a script.)

In your experience – what is it that makes a great talk? As a speaker still with ‘L’ plates on – I’d really love to know…

 

Funny or Sad? You Decide…

January 22nd, 2012 by Duncan

Its funny because this guy thinks he can sing but its sad because his friends have never had the guts to tell him the truth…

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When will the church learn that it will only become attractive to a watching world when those with the gift of communication do the preaching; those with the gift of organisation do the administration; those with the gift of craftsmanship do the fixing and those with the gift of singing sing!

Its criminal!

An intimate moment with Mary & Joseph

December 22nd, 2011 by Duncan

This is beautiful…

My suggestion would be to take a moment on Christmas Eve to turn off the Christmas Specials on the TV and use this to reflect on the beauty of God becoming human. Read it as a family. It will only take you a few moments and could make your Christmas.

The following is an excerpt from Ken Gire’s book ‘Intimate Moments With The Savior: Learning To Love.’

In those days Caesar Augustus issued a decree that a census should be taken of the entire Roman world. (This was the first census that took place while Quirinius was governor of Syria.) And everyone went to his own town to register.

So Joseph also went up from the town of Nazareth in Galilee to Judea, to Bethlehem the town of David, because he belonged to the house and line of David. He went there to register with Mary, who was pledged to be married to him and was expecting a child. While they were there, the time came for the baby to be born, and she gave birth to her firstborn, a son. She wrapped him in cloths and placed him a manager, because there was no room for them in the inn. ~ Luke 2: 1-7

For the census, the royal family has to travel eighty-five miles. Joseph walks, while Mary, nine months pregnant, rides sidesaddle on a donkey, feeling every jolt, every rut, every rock in the road.

By the time they arrive, the small hamlet of Bethlehem is swollen from an influx of travelers. The inn is packed, people feeling lucky if they were able to negotiate even a small space on the floor. Now it is late, everyone is a sleep, and there is no room.

But fortunately, the innkeeper is not all shekels and mites. True, his stable is crowded with his guests’ animals, but if they could squeeze out a little privacy there, they were welcome to it

Joseph looks over at Mary, whose attention is concentrated on fighting a contraction. “We’ll take it,” he tells the innkeeper without hesitation.

The night is still when Joseph creaks open the stable door. As he does, a chorus of barn animals makes discordant note of the intrusion. The stench is pungent and humid, as there have not been enough hours in the day to tend the guests, let alone the livestock. A small oil lamp, lent them by the innkeeper, flickers to dance shadows on the walls. A disquieting place for a woman in the throes of childbirth.  Far from home. Far from family. Far from what she had expected for her firstborn.

But Mary makes no complaint. It is a relief just to finally get off the donkey. She leans back against the wall, her feet swollen, back aching, contractions growing stronger and closer together.

Joseph’s eyes dart around the stable. Not a minute to lose. Quickly. A feeding trough would have to make do for a crib. Hay would serve as a mattress. Blankets? Blankets? Ah, his robe. That would do. And those rags hung out to dry would help.

A gripping contraction doubles Mary over and sends him racing for a bucket of water.

The birth would not be easy, either for the mother or the child. For every royal privilege for this son ended at conception.

A scream from Mary knifes through the calm of that silent night. Joseph returns, breathless, water sloshing from the wooden bucket. The top of the baby’s head has already pushed its way into the world. Sweat pours from Mary’s contorted face as Joseph, the most unlikely midwife in all Judea, rushes to her side.

The involuntary contractions are not enough, and Mary has to push with all her strength, almost as if God were refusing to come into the world without her help.

Joseph places a garment beneath her, and with a final push and a long sigh her labour is over.

The Messiah has arrived.

Elongated head from the constricting journey through the birth canal. Light skin, as the pigment would take days or even weeks to surface. Mucus in his ears and nostrils. Wet and slippery from the amniotic fluid. The Son of the Most High God umbilically tied to a lowly Jewish girl.

The baby chokes and coughs. Joseph instinctively turns him over and clears his throat. Then he cries. Mary bares her breast and reaches for the shivering baby. She lays him on her chest, and his helpless cries subside. His tiny head bobs around on the unfamiliar terrain. This will be the first thing the infant-king learns. Mary can feel his racing heartbeat as he gropes to nurse.

Deity nursing from a young maiden’s breast. Could anything be more puzzling – or more profound?

Joseph sits exhausted, silent, full of wonder.

The baby finishes and sighs, the divine Word reduced to a few unintelligible sounds. Then, for the first time, his eyes fix on his mother’s.   Deity straining to focus. The Light of the World, squinting.

Tears pool in her eyes. She touches his tiny hand. And hands that once sculpted mountain ranges cling to her finger.

She looks up at Joseph, and though a watery veil, their souls touch. He crowds closer, cheek to cheek with his betrothed. Together they stare in awe at the baby Jesus, whose heavy eyelids begin to close. It has been a long journey. The King is tired.

And so, with barely a ripple of notice, God stepped into the warm lake of humanity. Without protocol and without pretention.

Where you would have expected angels, there were only flies. Where you would have expected heads of state, there were only donkeys, a few haltered cows, a nervous ball of sheep, a tethered camel, and a furtive scurry of curious barn mice.

Except for Joseph, there was no one to share Mary’s pain. Or her joy. Yes, there were angels announcing the Savior’s arrival – but only to a band of blue-collar shepherds. And yes, a magnificent star shone in the sky to mark his birthplace – but only three foreigners bothered to look up and follow it.

Thus, in the little town of Bethlehem … that one silent night … the royal birth of God’s son tiptoed quietly by … as the world slept.

I’ve found my voice(s) again…

December 21st, 2011 by Duncan

Christmas services at the Forge are always magical and irresistible.

And I can’t believe I get to be a part of it each year. (If you missed it this year you can watch it here)

Last I heard we about doubled our numbers for a usual Sunday service.

I spent the weeks leading up to the three services with my mind full of nothing else. Rehearsals… shifting over 600 tickets… the stage set… lights… Not to mention nailing a talk that would inspire our guests to see Jesus and his church differently and want to come back in the new year.

So you can imagine my frustration at the first service when the band take the stage for the opener and I’ve lost my voice. I did the talk… just… with a voice like Barry White’s English cousin. But why does stuff like this happen at such crucial times? Was it a spiritual thing? Or was it something more mundane? Maybe a bug I’d picked up from the kids or just the fact that I was plain burnt out and exhausted.

I think it was all of the above. And the experience made me marvel once again at the power of team. They were amazing. But then if you were there at one of the services you’d already know that.

A few weeks previously I lost my virtual voice on Twitter for a variety of reasons (mainly the pressure of time.) And by Sunday night my real voice had disappeared totally.

I am a preacher.

My voice is my trade.

And it had gone.

I felt bad.

By today (Wednesday) my voice is slowly coming back. I sound more like Kermit the Frog now. I’ve even found my Twitter voice again – just. This enforced silence, mixed with still feeling totally exhausted, has given me time to reflect on Christmas. My reflections have been surprisingly emotional.

Check back tomorrow (Thursday) and I will post the most beautifully crafted description of that scene in the Barn that I have ever read. Study it carefully and you’ll find out what has drawn tears from my eyes these past few days.

What are you reflecting on as you head into Christmas this year?